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These love notes showcase how the twelve zodiac signs and three modalities - fixed, mutable or cardinal - show up in love relationships, friendships and business partnerships.
The topic of compatibility based on signs is very nuanced. Who you are attracted to at any point in time is who has the energy your soul needs at that time.
This is also why your taste in love companions change as your soul matures.
Read this post to understand why you have better or more loving relations with some persons with some signs/placements, more than others.
How-to Apply Love Notes for All Zodiac Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
There are 2 love notes to be read for each of the zodiac signs.
First, their love note as part of their elemental family.
Second, their love note as a member of their modality sign.
For love, read the love notes for you and your lover's Ascendant, Moon and Venus placements.
For friendship, check out you and your friend's Ascendant, Mercury and 11H placements to understand what makes your friendship work and how to build on it.
To make decisions about business partners, look at their Ascendant, Sun, Venus, Jupiter, Saturn, 6th House, 7th House, and 8th House energetic affinities, to help you better understand what they are capable of executing in your partnership. And the possible goals you could join forces on.
You’ll notice no mention of Mars influence; that’s because that needs a different post on its own. Subscribe to newsletter to stay informed about my latest codes and downloads.
Coming Up next: How Mars influences your sexual, sensual and love making style.
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Love Notes for Air Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with someone who has Air placements - Gemini, Libra and Aquarius significant in their birth chart, know these;
Their gift is communication. So flirting to them is natural. It's an art form. And like an art form, it is a skill they've harnessed. The worst way to hurt yourself is to accuse them of cheating. They don't more times than not. Because they can talk with anyone whenever they want. So if they chose you, they really chose you.
The women with these placements exhibit the sexual freedom that's more expected of the masculine energy. Their ability to see the logic and intellectualise emotions makes them appear detached unlike the more feminine energies. They aren't. They are just able to separate facts from emotions.
Sex is an energetic art form. They can wield it strategically. These women have no issues with their sexual nature, and can communicate their needs with ease.
Libra
Of these 3, the most feminine zodiac sign is Libra and that's really because of Venus. But even that is a facade. Libra is half male- half female. They balance everything out. Just than an unevolved Libra will tend to put others ahead of them simply because they can see their perspective and expect others to see theirs as well.
But an evolved Libra keeps things in check like a judge.
Gemini
Gemini appears unattached but that's the most romantic of the 3. It is just not obvious because they can't bother to pretend.
To match a Gemini, you have to match them through and through. A Gemini is loyal or not. No in-betweens. If they are committed, it's for life because for a Gemini it is very hard to find someone who can match the mutability of their curiosity. So if they have found you, they will keep you except you don't want to be kept. Then they'll discard you as another un-intelligent life form.
Aquarius
Now Aquarius is the girliest of the Air signs. That fixed nature makes them love in a consuming nature but from a heart distance. They will overwhelm your senses but with emotions still detached.
To capture their heart, you've got to quiet her doubts and be resourceful enough to meet all her needs - yes, even the most depraved sexual request. She wants to see how really really down you are. Now this takes me to Fixed energy.....
Love Notes for Fixed Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with someone who has Fixed energy predominant in their chart -Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius know these;
Fixed energy doesn't budge easily. Their gift is being able to build. Their love is enduring and deep. They don't change their minds easily. They want you for a lifetime. They will sink or swim with you. They will kill for you. This is the Bonnie & Clyde type of energy. They stay for the long haul. It's their nature to work things out by sticking to it.
Loyalty is in their blood until it ain't. They don't switch sides or lovers easily. Their love button when pressed stays on until the current cuts off. They can manage the swinging voltages and surges as long as they feel that something feasible still exists between you.
These aren't the let's just go with the flow lovers. Nahhhh, you better have a solid plan prepared before you approach. They ain't the ones to switch sides.
If they choose you, they stay on your team till it no longer makes sense and that point is not fixed. These are the ones that keep on finding excuses to stay together, even if by all accounts they should have moved on.
They are the ones more prone to accepting apologies to being cheated on but at varied degrees based on personal evolution of self-love.
Taurus
For Taurus, they really don't like things to change. So they will stay with you except you just make their living day-to-day experience uncomfortable. Then they will try to help you see reason. But if you can't, they will try to make things comfortable for themselves.
If it ain't cute anymore, they are leaving. But it takes a long while to get them to this point. These are the ones that will make the relationship look aesthetically pleasing even if it is just for show.
Leo
For Leo, their love for you is a source of pride. They will stick with you for the sake of their pride even when it doesn't make sense. They don't like admitting they have made a mistake in choosing you. So you better know what you are in for before you approach a Leo.
If they are wronged, they'll eventually maul out your heart before leaving so you don't go tampering with anyone else's ever again.
They leave their mark on you and nobody ever comes close to loving as freely and forcefully as a Leo.
Scorpio
For Scorpio, they want to go through hard, tough life-transforming moments with you. They are the ones to rely on when your world is collapsing, they will stick with you through severe life changes.
While they can be suspicious, it's from a place of wanting to preserve what you share. They will defend you. They will help you, but they will hurt you in the worst ways if you push them. They know exactly what buttons to press.
Aquarius
For Aquarius, these are the ones who will build with you but might not stay as long as the other Fixed placements especially if the resources are dwindling. But if you give them a reason, you'll always find support and camaraderie in your Aquarius lover.
They are the ones you need when you are ready to disrupt your life. To change your scenery, situation and your perspective.
Love Notes for Fire Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with somebody who has Fire Energy - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius dominant in their chart, pull up a chair. It's about to get hotttt.
If you can't stand the heat, don't bother these folks. If you aren't willing to die a thousand times and be reborn cleansed of all impurities, leave them be.
Leave your ego at the door. Leave your pride at the door. Leave your worries behind. There ain't no room for them here. Their love is here to purify you even if you need to be burned alive first, it's a cleansing process where they help you release everything that's non-core to you.
These are the ones where you can distinctly mark before vs after. They either aid and abet your bad choices in love or turn you into a more elevated version of love where you start making better choices in love. You'd often meet them after a break-up and might position as a rebound.
Fire signs need you to be all you can be without dimming your light, your needs, your affection in anyway. Your loudest lovers and biggest supporters.
Aries
Aries will charge after you, run after you, chase you then forget about you. Then remember you exist. Then repeat the cycle. They have a million and one things to get done and you are one of it.
They help you retain your self-identity and not get lost in the illusion of the other. They love you but need you to not tie them down. Give them room to be themselves and they will remain yours by choice.
Leo
Leo will pour all their love and attention on you when the going is good. It's there one day and gone the next it would seem. But that one day can stretch to a lifetime, as long as you don't embarrass or make them regret their choice of loving you.
You've got the biggest supporter in your corner. They will help you shine. They will make you feel special. They will help you see that you are a star without feeling threatened. But they need you to also return the favor. They need you to shout it from the rooftop.
What's PDA? Nahhh display all the affection for theme wherever, whenever, however, the louder the better. Go big or go away.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius will drive you out of your head, out of your old ways, old life, old beliefs, old thinking and even old sanity if you let them. They will have you exploring and trying different things until you realize you are never out of options except for self-imposed limitations.
They will help you go after your goals just make sure you ride along with them. No going off to do your own thing. Give them freedom but not too much. Same energy they will give to you.
With your Sagittarius, NO is not an option or a word they understand. They take by force, and expect you to also not back down! They want to see you win and wouldn't mind throwing you into the sky.
Love Notes for Cardinal Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with someone who has cardinal energy - Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn significant in their chart. Know these and know peace;
They are wired to make the first decision, the first approach, the first play. Their energy is to charge forward first and ask questions later.
Might not be the most patient lovers but will certainly not waste time in letting you know they want you, especially Aries & Libra.
Capricorn will only admit it when they have talked themselves out of all excuses.
Cancer likes you one day and hates your gut the next, it's all love.
Their energy is meant for initiating. So they'll lead the conversation, lead the dance, lead the way, lead the date but expect you to pick up the slack when they have provided the direction.
They will tell you you where to go but you need to be ready to stay the course even if they seem no longer interested. They want to chase after you and win you like a prize before chasing after their next goal.
They really can't love you all night long, you need a fixed energy for that. But cardinals will set you ablaze, then act uninterested. You need to stay on your toes with them. Continually invent yourself. They want to win you like a conquest. Make the chase exciting. Reinvent yourself.
They love surprises. Keep them guessing. Raise the bar, raise the standards, raise your ideals, it excites them. Make yourself the prize, they'll cherish their investments in winning you over. You will keep on evolving and becoming a better version of yourself with every level they breach.
Love Notes for Water Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you're with someone who has Water Placements - Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces significant in their chart. Here are some things you should know;
This is the soft love. The easy lover that takes you as you are. For them, LOVE is to experienced. To be enjoyed. To be felt. To be seen. To be heard.
For a water lover, your ability to tune into the emotional realm is a BIG plus.
In how many ways can you show them that you love them? Are you a lover's lover or just a surface-level empty-words lover? If you're the latter, don't come closer to water babies.
They don't need you to explain what you are feeling, they want to see you show and demonstrate it. Show not tell. Bonnie and Clyde but on a deeper, blood-oath swearing level type of love.
Their love is irrational. Unhinged. And bucks against normalcy.
Cancer
Cancer wants to build with you and for you. They want to create a sustainable receptacle for you to ease and retreat from the world into.
They will make your life comfortable but at a price that you don't wrong them. If not, they will make your life a misery from a loving place.
This is the tough love. More bark than bite but the bite hurts like a MF so you learn to stay on their good side.
Scorpio
Scorpio wants to explore with you.
Scorpio wants to fight for you and beside you. They want to vanquish your enemies and spear anyone who ever made you cry.
They will enable your desires and your dreams. As long as you are willing to never stop evolving, they are ready to stick to your side. They will walk through fire with you with your hands clasped in theirs.
But once you give them a reason to doubt you, things will never be the same again and they will gladly destroy all you've built together while walking away with some backward glances.
Pisces
Pisces wants to die with you. This is the real lover girl/boy vibe.
Pisces wants to drown in you. Cry with you. Get high with you. Make art with you. Live in your soul. It is all or nothing.
In this relationship, there is no separation between you two. You meld into one entity. You visit each other's dreams and carry out sensual exchanges on a cellular level.
They want to get lost in you. If you are not ready to be consumed in your entirety, stay away.
Love Notes for Mutable Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with someone who has Mutable Energy significant in their chart - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces, here are some love notes for you;
Their love is to get you unstuck and out of a rut.
You meet these lovers when your life needs to change. They help you safely explore new options and to see things in a different way.
Their love is unexpected, different, purposeful and up-leveling depending on your peculiar soul evolution status.
A mutable will show you why you have bled before. They help you to discover a new way of loving and being loved.
While this might seem not as stable as the love from a Fixed placement, Mutable energy can last as long as it is needed to. This love is purposeful.
Gemini
Gemini is here to lead you to new intellectual pursuits. Expanding your mind and ability to conceptualize new ideas. They push your boundaries and understanding. They help you to see things in new light and appreciate new ideas.
They revive your curiosity and make you feel like a child again. They open you up to asking questions instead of settling for preconceived answers.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius is here to broaden your creative exploits. They are there to push you out of limited experiences and thinking.
They help you leap over creative blocks and find better, interesting, out of the box ways of meeting and confronting life head on. They help you open up to new experiences, opportunities and adventures.
They are usually wiser and would tend to have forgiving attitude towards misdemeanors but know that their tit-for-tat game comes with the promise of them doubling back any effort - good or bad.
Pisces
Pisces is here to transport you to new realms. They want to travel through space with you. They want to show you what your mind couldn't previously conceive because your heart didn't know it was possible.
Pisces is here to take you on a spiritual sex-capade. A whirlwind. A heady rush. That leaves you picking up and reconstituting the atoms that make up your existence but now brushed with new insights and awareness into just what's possible.
Virgo
Virgo is here to help you finetune and hone in on the details that that have been hindering your soul growth and expansion.
Biting scathing remarks sometimes but these are riddled with clues to get you deeper into your heart and the treasures not yet plumbed.
Love Notes for Earth Signs in Love, Friendship & Business
If you are with someone who has Earth placements - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn significant in their chart. You should know that;
Earth signs don't play. They either want you or they don't.
It might take a while for them to acknowledge their own feelings or admit they want you, but when they do it's a slippery slide from there.
These are the mama's boys and daddy's girls. They often times have had limited exposure to love and might hold a relationship up to very high ideals and standards which they might have assumed and absorbed from their parents' relationships or societal expectations.
These are the traditional lovers. They want to keep things respectable and morally pure. They don't play games but they don't mind using you to achieve their goals. The more you succumb to their plans for you the happier they become.
Virgo
Virgos will take you apart. Hold you up to the microscope. Dissect you and still find you lacking. But that's why they love you. They really don't want you to be perfect, just be a bit close to perfection. They'll obsess over you and your tiniest details then forget all about the big picture.
They love to be needed and will gladly provide what you need but with the condition that you are able to show them what you did with what they've given you - be it love, attention, romance, resources.
They need terms and conditions stated for your exchange, but don't mind being responsible for more results. They love it and secretly thrive on being the bigger person. Let them control your life and your Virgo will be the happiest lover.
They are very shy but kinky in the closet. Just no PDA please.
Capricorn
Capricorn wants you both to take over the world. They don't mind building with you but they also need you to bring something of value to the relationship.
What's your secret sauce? Bring it they can multiply and commercialize it for you.
Shy freaks in the sheet. They need to know that you are not just an arm candy but can dominate and rule with them. If you aren't ready to grow old together, just let them be.
These are the ones you need to regale with success stories and your accomplishments. Don't worry their eyes wouldn't glaze over. They just need to know you can match their vibe and can-do spirit.
Are you in for the long haul or nah? Make plans for your babies, grand babies and 7 generations to come, they are down for it. But if you ain't got nothing to offer, don't be surprised to find their attention dwindling.
Taurus
Taurus need you to make their life easier, sweeter, more comfy and pleasing. If you can't do any of the above, forget trying to keep their love.
They can play house with you but need something substantial. They can manage with you but need something fertile to rely on. They might stay when the going is tough but they can't stay where there is no love and the best way to show you love is by becoming their soul provider even if they can provide for themselves. Do it. Show up. Go overboard with your affections. Shower them with gifts. They don't want empty words.
If they accept you into their lives it is with the promise that you'll not let them down. Deliver on this and you've got a ride-or-die who will supplement for whatever you seem to lack but with the expectation to be paid back in tenfold.
Conclusion
This is why the topic of compatibility based on signs is very nuanced. Who you are attracted to at any point in time is who has the energy your soul needs at that time.
This is also why your taste in love companions change as your soul matures.
This also explains why you have better or more loving relations with some persons with some signs.
Naturally, mutable energies understand each other better than fixed or cardinal and vice versa.
Likewise, Air signs will find it easier to relate to other signs as against an Earth sign because the energetic affinity is similar.
Now this ain't straightforward but further layered.
A mutable Air sign will find it easier to relate to another mutable Air sign, or a mutable sign, or an air sign predominant. It will be easier to understand each other.
But if the mutable air sign, e.g, is a Gemini Moon in a fixed house, say 5H, then their energy is filtered through the wavelength of fixed energies.
Isn't life beautiful and simple in its elegant complexity?
That's why I always say you are not just one sign. So ascribing to teachings of sign compatibility on a superficial level is apt for misinterpretation.
Know your signs. Know their energies. Know thyself.
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